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Friday, November 1, 2013

Easy Ways You Can Turn Goal Setting And Accomplishment Into Success













The following are easy ways you can turn your goals setting and accomplishment into success.Success is personal and it takes our individual efforts and actions we take.These are ways  that helped me in properly using goals in the best way to achieve  Success both in my life as a Motivational Success Coach,  my Book Writing/Publishing and in Producing /Hosting my Own Radio Talk Shows.Following  these steps will definitely  propel you to accomplish your Goals and succeed in life.
Goals are powerful and they are necessary in order to move from one level to another, Accomplish Greatness and Fulfill Purpose.
1. Goals are the means by which we   achieve our Endeavors, Accomplishment and Success.
2. Have a Well-Defined   Picture in Your Mind of where you desire to be in future. Your Mind is Your Power tool for Visualizations of what you want your future to be like.Protect your mind from wandering around negative thoughts.
3 Don’t hang on your wall pictures of your past and don’t look back at your past. Your past is dead in order to achieve your future you have to leave it buried.
4. Put in front and around you, your home what inspires and what motivates you this reduces Loss of Focus.
 5. Inspire yourself with the following; Use the fragrances you like their aroma, listen to the sounds and music that activate your Spirit Man and have the Word of God as your Light and Candle for directions.
 6. Constantly Prioritize your Goals and always Plan Ahead. Maintain your inspiration, that’s your first great success. Do not let anything or anyone take away your Inspiration.
7. Think about, meditate upon what is true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and of good report at all times.






8. Discuss your goals with The Holy Spirit. He loves conversation/ attention and He will give guide you on how to achieve your goals. Once you engage The Holy Spirit be ready to make room for flexibilities/surprises. Discuss big dreams with Him, He can accomplish big things through us.All we need do is trust God.
9. Discern, Discover and Follow those who you are assigned to, and who are  assigned to you.Your Goals require Good People in your life.

10. Your goals require Faith, your Faith requires Focus; focus on God and his Word not the circumstances going on around you. Most times where you are will always differ from where you are going and most times your circumstances may be making you to fear or doubt your abilities.
11. Classify your Goals; Write and break them into Smaller, Measurable and Achievable ones. This helps concentration and beats procrastination.
12. Step out with these steps out of your fear and make things begin to happen for your dreams.
13. Now celebrate every time you achieve any of your   Written Goals from your list and have a Thankful Spirit.
Lastly, Build your Life around Your Goals since Your goals Determines Your Future.
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Friday, August 30, 2013

Wisdom Nuggets on Accomplishing Your Vision 5




Vision For Success
Any God given vision will require absolute faith and trust in God the giver of the vision and obedience to doing whatever it takes for the vision to be accomplished. From The Word of God, we can see that every one that received a vision from God needed to act upon what God was showing them. And they chose to obey in faith instead of looking at their circumstances, inadequacies or   walk in fear .
Fear is one of the crippling factors that kill vision from moving from  vision to reality. The Bible says people perish because of lack of vision therefore it is important to seek godly wisdom on how to understand  our vision , handle our vision and keep it alive until it comes to pass. 
While we are in the journey of life and waiting for the vision to be accomplished we need to keep on walking by faith and trusting in God in whatever He has committed into our hands and wherever we may find ourselves. The Word of God must stay close in our heart, mind and in our speech.
Proverbs 29:18 where there is no vision, the people perish; 
but happy is he who keeps the law.

Hosea4:6a my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.

The following   three  steps   must be adhered to faithfully in order to be able to accomplish any God given vision for any area of our  life, home or business.
1. Write the vision down when God gives it to you. Writing the vision empowers you and motivates you to follow the plan and call for action. It also helps you in strategic planning of what it is the Lord is showing you to do or shown you that you will be doing. Writing it down is a reminder to you that God gave you the idea, God can never lie and when the manifestation of what is written down comes to pass, it gives you joy and  increases your faith in God. Also the brain has a short memory to recollect things so when it is written down, it reminds you of the idea and how God wants it done. Writing it down also helps you have something to focus on and pray about until the appointed time of fulfillment. 
The written down vision can also be referred to and discussed with The Holy Spirit during your quiet time. The Holy Spirit will speak to you on how to go about the vision, what to do and what not to do. Writing it down also enables you to pass out the right information to others that may come along to work with you in the fulfillment of your vision. In business, for example the vision statement written by the owner of a company helps the employees to know what the company is all about.
Habakkuk 2:2aThen the Lord answered me and said:
“Write the vision and make it plain on tablets.
2. Read the written down vision from time to time and update the information on it as The Holy Spirit may be leading and giving you instructions. 
Habakkuk 2:3 that he may run who reads it.
3. The last thing to do with the vision is to run with the vision. Start an action plan in line what the written vision. Dreams, goals and success don’t come because God has spoken; they come to pass when we do something about them in our action. The vision may take years to come to pass, but in between the years of fulfillment and the revealing of the vision, the visionary needs to go to work , be diligent in his work, be passionate about the vision,  maintaining integrity in all you do, serving others with the right servant heart, doing things with the right motives and right heart and right attitude, not being slothful ,busy sowing  your gifts, skills , talents , money ,time  faithfully serving God and humanity, praying without ceasing ,walking by faith and not in fear.
When all these are done in the right order with love and patience, God will eventually bring to fruition the appointed vision at the appointed time. Be encouraged also that when God gives a vision, He always makes provision for accomplishing the dreams; heaven is never short of resources for the obedient.

Habakkuk 2:3For the vision is yet for an appointed time; 
but at the end it will speak, and it will not lie.
Though it tarries, wait for it; 
because it will surely come, 
it will not tarry.
“Vision without action is just a dream, action without vision just passes the time, and vision with action can change the whole world”. 
The power to make our vision happen has already been given to us by God so let’s all go out and make our vision happen.
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Friday, May 31, 2013

ENGRAVE IN YOUR HEART GOD’S WORD 3


Friday blessings everyone, here’s my conclusion series on “Engrave in your heart God’s Word.”
Engraving God’s Word in our hearts is the only way we can guard our hearts from all the issues of life.
Proverbs 4:23 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Fixing your mind on The Word, the Presence of the Holy Spirit and the knowledge of the Prince of Peace in our lives are the only things that guarantees our Peace of mind in the turbulent world we live in.
Philippians 4:8-9 And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.  Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.
Isaiah 26:3 You will keep in perfect peace
    all who trust in you,
    all whose thoughts are fixed on you!
Psalms 85:8: I listen carefully to what God the Lord is saying,
    for he speaks peace to his faithful people.
    But let them not return to their foolish ways.
 Psalms 119:165: Those who love your instructions have great peace
    and do not stumble.
Engraving the Word of God in our Hearts will help us to believe, enjoy the blessings and benefits of living a long, faith filled and fulfilling life.
Proverbs3:1-2: My child, never forget the things I have taught you.
    Store my commands in your heart.
If you do this, you will live many years,
    and your life will be satisfying. 
Psalms 91:16 I will reward them with a long life.
    and give them my salvation.
Ezekiel 37:26: And I will make a covenant of peace with them, an everlasting covenant. I will give them their land and increase their numbers, and I will put my Temple among them forever. It is possible for us to walk in The Spirit because of the engraved Word in our hearts; we are able to do more things that are pleasing to our Spirit than our flesh. 
The Word of God and the Spirit of God are one and they always agree with each other. The Spirit of God in us always bears witness with the Word of God. Once our Spirit man is in control, our body and our soul will be subjected to the dictates of the Spirit thereby The Word will be able to keep us holy in our Spirit, Soul and Body. This also works in the reverse, if we feed our flesh/body more with everything it desires other than the Word of God; our flesh/body  will be the one controlling our spirit and soul then we will find ourselves struggling from one issue or the other habitually, and this eventually makes us lose our peace with God.
Romans 8:6: So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace.
1Thessalonians 5:23:  Now may the God of peace make you holy in every way, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes again.
Finally, the Word of God that is engraved in your heart is able to produce the desired fruits in our life during our time of need. No word, no faith and no manifestation of the Things of The Spirit. The Word of God is more than able to provide whatever we need, wherever we live: a job in time of recession,   provision in time of lack, freedom in place of bondage, healing in time of sickness, multiplication in time of scarcity, divine health in place of ailments, love in time of war, joy in place of sadness, relationship in place of isolation, fruitfulness in time of barrenness. God has provided all in His Word, we just need to do our own part in the process to see the manifestations. May the engraved Word of God bring forth good fruits of success in our lives, homes, and businesses in Jesus name. Amen
Next week  I will be sharing   on the series of nuggets on sowing and reaping.Do have a blessed Friday/Weekend.
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Wednesday, May 29, 2013

ENGRAVE IN YOUR HEART GOD’S WORD 1

Blessings ,here is my continuation series on The Word of God, today I will be sharing on  engraving God’s Word in our heart.
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ENGRAVE IN YOUR HEART GOD’S WORD 1
Engraving in your heart God’s Word is the one of the ways to live a life of Success in the 21st century that we live in. Living a life in The Word attracts the Blessing. Living according to the world may mean living a life of compromises, and whatever you compromise to get, you will have to keep making compromises to keep. However the Blessings of the Lord are permanent and has no sorrow attached to them.
 Proverbs 10:22 NIV The blessing of the Lord brings wealth,
    without painful toil for it.
When the Word of God is engraved in our hearts, it will help us from falling back and forth into sin. When we spend time reading, studying, thinking, pondering over and over again the Word of God, our thinking changes, faith begins to rise up inside of us, revelations are released unto us and outwardly things begin to change around us for our good and our success.
Psalms 119:11 I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.
Joshua 1:8 Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.
Whenever we   take time to meditate on what we read, making that part of our daily routine and staying consistent and long enough, then the engraving takes place in our heart.
How to Engrave God’s Word in your heart:
By   reading, memorizing, meditating, pondering upon, writing it down, highlighting and confessing   the Word.
When the above process is repeated on a daily basis, our heart begins to know the Word, and that’s how to get it engraved on our heart. This requires    a lot of discipline, consistency, setting a time for this routine and following through.  When what we are saying with our mouth matches with what we have read in the Bible that is the outward evidence of   knowing the Word is engraved in our heart.
Benefits of Engraving the   Word in your heart:
1.Whenever we engrave the Word in our hearts, we are actually sowing the seed of god's Words in our heart and God will do His own part of growing the sown Words in our hearts into physical manifestations of whatever we are believing God for the in the physical.
Mark 4:3-20 Listen! Behold, a sower went out to sow. And it happened, as he sowed, that some seed fell by the wayside; and the birds of the air came and devoured it. Some fell on stony ground, where it did not have much earth; and immediately it sprang up because it had no depth of earth. But when the sun was up it was scorched, and because it had no root it withered away. And some seed fell among thorns; and the thorns grew up and choked it, and it yielded no crop. But other seed fell on good ground and yielded a crop that sprang up, increased and produced: some thirty fold, some sixty, and some a hundred.”
And He said to them, “He who has ears to hear, let him hear!”
The Purpose of Parables
10 But when He was alone, those around Him with the twelve asked Him about the parable. 11 And He said to them, “To you it has been given to know the mystery of the kingdom of God; but to those who are outside, all things come in parables, 12 so that
‘Seeing they may see and not perceive,
And hearing they may hear and not understand;
Lest they should turn,
And their sins be forgiven them.’’
The Parable of the Sower Explained
13 And He said to them, “Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand all the parables? 14 The sower sows the word. 15 And these are the ones by the wayside where the word is sown. When they hear, Satan comes immediately and takes away the word that was sown in their hearts. 16 These likewise are the ones sown on stony ground who, when they hear the word, immediately receive it with gladness; 17 and they have no root in themselves, and so endure only for a time. Afterward, when tribulation or persecution arises for the word’s sake, immediately they stumble. 18 Now these are the ones sown among thorns; they are the ones who hear the word, 19 and the cares of this world, the deceitfulness of riches, and the desires for other things entering in choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful. 20 But these are the ones sown on good ground, those who hear the word, accept it, and bear fruit: some thirty fold, some sixty, and some a hundred.”
 LUKE 8:11-15 Now the parable is this: The seed is the word of God. 12 Those by the wayside are the ones who hear; then the devil comes and takes away the word out of their hearts, lest they should believe and be saved. 13 But the ones on the rock are those who, when they hear, receive the word with joy; and these have no root, who  believe for a while and in time of temptation fall away. 14 Now the ones that fell among thorns are those who, when they have heard, go out and are choked with cares, riches, and pleasures of life, and bring no fruit to maturity. 15 But the ones that fell on the good ground are those who, having heard the word with a noble and good heart, keep it and bear fruit with patience.

2. The engraved Word of God  will make us a   Spirit filled believer because The Word in us is what makes us Spiritual.
3.The engraved Word helps us   to know The Truth which is the only source of freedom. Knowledge is power and we would be free from ignorance and   we would be equipped to defeat the fiery tricks of the devil.
Ephesians 6:13-17 therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm.  Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness.  For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
4. Success and prosperity will be our portion, during the time we invest in spending in the Word, God   will reveal unto us mysteries of the Kingdom and hidden mysteries for our home, business and careers.

5.  Grace consciousness will be available to you on a daily basis at the altar rather than sin consciousness.
Without faith it is impossible to please God. Without knowing what God says in His  Word in this 21st century, we will be blown away with every form of doctrine.  It is very difficult to please God without His Word but it is also very easy to please Him when we know His Words. (Written and Revealed).
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
6.Nobody can take or steal what we know and what we have hidden in our hearts.
7. Engraving the Word in our hearts enable us to   produce the good fruit of The Spirit.
John 15; 3-5 you have already been pruned and purified by the message I have given you. Remain in me, and I will remain in you.  For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me.
“Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.
Galatians 5:22 but the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
8. The more time we spend in engraving the Word in our hearts, the more we grow in the things of God and the more the good fruit begin to manifest in our lives; The more loving, joyful , peaceful, kind , good, faithful, gentle and self -controlled we become.
TO BE CONTINUED.

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Sunday, May 19, 2013

"Heart to love with Fola" Online Radio Talk show is now on I -tunes



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Monday, March 18, 2013

THE HIDDEN REASONS WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO NUGGETS ON MOTIVES 7B CONCLUSION



THE HIDDEN REASONS WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO NUGGETS ON MOTIVES 7B CONCLUSION

Blessings everyone, I hope you all are having a great day so far. If   anyone is  experiencing any challenges today, be rest assured that God is just setting you up for uncommon miracles. The next series will be on getting our miracles through and by  the Wisdom of God.
 Below are the remaining   few examples from the Word of God on some people that did some things(good and bad) with the wrong motives in The Bible.
Example 4: Uzziah " did that which was right in the sight of the Lord, yet not like (i.e. he didn't do his works like) David his father”. God saw through his deeds that all he was doing was not with the right heart/motive.
2 Kings 14:3 He did what was right in the eyes of the Lord, but not as his father David had done. In everything he followed the example of his father Joash.
 2 Chronicles 25:2 he did that which was right in the sight of the Lord, but not with a perfect heart.
Example Five: The Pharisees did all the works, but in their hearts they never knew God nor believed in Jesus as the Christ... In God's eyes; they did not work at all:
 “Do not follow after their works; for they say, and do not”.
Matthew   23:3 so you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach.
Example Six: Eli did rebuke his sons; but in God’s eyes he didn't  He said words for the sake of saying words, but in his heart he didn't frown upon them. Eli appeared to discipline his sons. But he couldn't have really done this from his heart, or he wouldn't have been condemned for not controlling them.
1 Samuel 2: 22-24 Now Eli was very old, but he was aware of what his sons were doing to the people of Israel. He knew, for instance, that his sons were seducing the young women who assisted at the entrance of the Tabernacle. 23 Eli said to them, “I have been hearing reports from all the people about the wicked things you are doing. Why do you keep sinning? 24 You must stop, my sons! The reports I hear among the Lord’s people are not good.
1 Samuel 2:27-35 Now a man of God came to Eli and said to him, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Did I not clearly reveal myself to your ancestor’s family when they were in Egypt under Pharaoh? 28 I chose your ancestor out of all the tribes of Israel to be my priest, to go up to my altar, to burn incense, and to wear an ephod in my presence. I also gave your ancestor’s family all the food offerings presented by the Israelites.29 Why do you scorn my sacrifice and offering that I prescribed for my dwelling? Why do you honor your sons more than me by fattening yourselves on the choice parts of every offering made by my people Israel?’
30 “Therefore the Lord, the God of Israel, declares: ‘I promised that members of your family would minister before me forever.’ But now the Lord declares: ‘Far be it from me! Those who honor me I will honor, but those who despise me will be disdained. 31 The time is coming when I will cut short your strength and the strength of your priestly house, so that no one in it will reach old age, 32 and you will see distress in my dwelling. Although good will be done to Israel, no one in your family line will ever reach old age. 33 Every one of you that I do not cut off from serving at my altar I will spare only to destroy your sight and sap your strength, and all your descendants will die in the prime of life.
34 “‘And what happens to your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, will be a sign to you—they will both die on the same day. 35 I will raise up for myself a faithful priest, who will do according to what is in my heart and mind. I will firmly establish his priestly house, and they will minister before my anointed one always.
Example Seven: Cain murdered Abel as a result of his evil intention and his jealousy.
Genesis 4:8 Now Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let’s go out to the field. While they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.
I John 3:12 do not be like Cain, who belonged to the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own actions were evil and his brothers’ were righteous.

Motivators are the things that make us do whatever we want to do, the motivators can be either good or bad.
The following are bad examples of   motivators.
Bad Motivators: Greed, self- recognition, jealousy, envy, pleasing people rather than pleasing God, seeking promotion, competitive spirit, lasciviousness, seeking approval of others, seeking applause, bitterness, hatred, insecurity ,revenge, selfishness, and fear. 
Good Motivators: seeking to please God, doing things in obedience to God’s instruction, helping another in achieving their God given goals with no ulterior motives, stepping out in faith, to produce good fruits in others, living freely as moved by God’s Spirit, doing things in pure love, walking to be a blessing to others, to fulfill all righteousness as a duty unto others, being obedient to God’s Words. People with a pure heart will always see God. Matthew 5:8.Doing things as unto the Lord provide a check on our motives too.
Colossians 1:10so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God.
Colossians 3:17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.We should let the spirit renew our thoughts and attitudes from time to time; this also helps in  purify our motives.
Ephesians 4:22-23    You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds. Remember that God‘s eyes are everywhere, he’s keeping his eyes watching both the evil and the good.
Proverbs 15:3The eyes of the Lord are everywhere, keeping watch on the wicked and the good.
Ecclesiastes 12:13-14. Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter .Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.

May God help us all strive to do the right thing at the right time with the right motives and right intentions in Jesus name. Amen
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